It is all so worrying. I have been back and forth to GP for around two years with various symptoms that are linked to peri but are supposed to be investigated- intermenstrual bleeding, very sore breasts 24/7 such that it’s put me off sex- just brushing my arm past them hurts, very low iron levels, elevated T-cells.
After months of fighting for some referral and a year on a waitlist, I saw a gynaecologist two months ago who did an ultrasound and said all normal down there no womb or ovarian issues. I asked about my sore breasts and was told it was just aging and peri and to take paracetamol (doesn’t work) and to wear a sports bra ( I have been!) GP has refused to refer me for a mammogram this entire time despite my grandmother dying of bc in her 50s my mum having died in a car accident at a very young age (too young to have had bc).
Then right before my 51st birthday I got my routine automatic invite for my first ever mammogram, which I had on my birthday. Yippee. Then 3 days after my birthday I get a fat letter on Friday saying it’s not normal and that coming thursday I am booked into the breast unit for more scans and biopsies. The breast nurse said it’s a double appointment as I called to ask whether biopsies meant I needed someone to drive me home. No idea what they found on the manogram, I have no lumps I can feel but I’ve been literally whinging about breast pain for two years now. So doing that literally tomorrow afternoon (which is today as realising it’s 1am). It’s going very fast. As you can see anxiously unable to sleep rn.
The first mammogram invite comes anytime between 50 and 53, so why couldn’t I have had one last year? What if the system had waited two more years until I was 53? God Damn GP.
It’s all overwhelming and the “do not worry you might not have bc” parts of the letter don’t really help.
Anyway lots of love and luck to everyone else going through this.