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Please help - positive coil story please

42 replies

NameWithChange · 20/06/2024 18:55

Dr really thinks the coil is the best option for me. Alongside my oestrogen patches.

Please can someone give me some positive stories. I am so scared. Know 2 people who 'lost' them and really didn't like.

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Dontsparethehorses · 22/06/2024 07:32

I’m on my second - think they last 5 years? Even though they couldn’t find/ reach the strings when it needed replacing I just had to go into different surgery where they could scan and help locate. Inserting and removing was not too painful and certainly didn’t take very long. It’s been amazing. No periods, no pain and can’t feel it at all

allaboardtheplaybus · 22/06/2024 08:43

Morporkia · 21/06/2024 08:07

I'm on my 4th...maybe 5th Mirena and I've found it fantastic. Periods few and far between, pre menopause when I did have a period it't was very light and lasted max 4 days. Since menopause started I use oestrogen patches and so far everything has been great. Skin and hair in better condition, sex drive back with a BANG (DH thrilled with this), my overall mood has improved and i actually get at least 6 hours sleep. And if I have a bleed (rare) it's literally a smudge when I wipe myself.

Any idea how often they should be changed if being used for menopausal symptoms? I've googled and it seems to focus on them being used for contraception and says up to 8 years.

I've noticed that I'm getting a dip in mood once a month for a few days and I'm wondering if it's losing effectiveness (had it for 4.5 years)

BarrysTeaForMe · 22/06/2024 08:51

I have one and it has been great. Spotting for four months and then periods stopped. Insertion was uncomfortable for a minute, a bit more than a smear, but really not bad. I'll be 55 or so when this one is removed so I probably won't get another one. Good luck op.

Morporkia · 22/06/2024 11:32

@allaboardtheplaybus when I had it changed in 2022, the nurse said that I should have it changed in 5 years to help with menopause symptoms. Probably worth giving your surgery a call and speaking to a nurse if possible?

Indianajet · 22/06/2024 11:36

I had a mirena coil for very heavy periods - I can honestly say it was fine going in, during, and coming out - no problems. My periods were so heavy I kept having to have time off work, so it was a life changer for me.

tartancladpjs · 22/06/2024 11:40

Love the support here but if you are still on the fence you can just take the progesterone as a pill daily which does the exact same thing, stops periods and protects the womb.

OliveK · 22/06/2024 11:43

On my second, will def get a third when the time comes
No periods, life changing!
Insertion of second gave me bad cramps for a day or so...worth it for not having them monthly!

allaboardtheplaybus · 22/06/2024 13:44

Morporkia · 22/06/2024 11:32

@allaboardtheplaybus when I had it changed in 2022, the nurse said that I should have it changed in 5 years to help with menopause symptoms. Probably worth giving your surgery a call and speaking to a nurse if possible?

Yes I'll do that this week, sounds like I could be ready for a replacement but I'm not sure if they'll give me one now I'm likely through the menopause (54)

Greentreesandbushes · 22/06/2024 13:47

Copper coil for contraception, had it removed for TTC, then had another, all good, then it was suggested I have a Mary na, due to Peri. All ok. No periods is good.

Hurts to insert and remove, I dosed up on paracetamol and ibuprofen before appointments, I have a tilted cervix which makes that and smears harder but honestly all over in a few minutes.

NameWithChange · 10/07/2024 10:46

tartancladpjs · 22/06/2024 11:40

Love the support here but if you are still on the fence you can just take the progesterone as a pill daily which does the exact same thing, stops periods and protects the womb.

Thank you - I am already taking utrogestan continuously, it has reduced my periods but still some light spotting. Dr thinks having Mirena 'at source' would be more effective.

After a few years being single I have also met someone and apparently need to use some contraception as unclear if periods actually finished because of HRT.

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NameWithChange · 10/07/2024 10:48

Thank you so much everyone for your lovely informative and positive feedback.

I hope this thread is useful to someone else.

I am booked in to have it fitted next week.... 🙏🏼

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lovemycbf · 10/07/2024 11:40

I can't comment on coils but I had an ablation (novasure)and it's bee life changing my utterly awful heavy flooding periods are barely noticeable now

NameWithChange · 16/07/2024 12:28

Just to update .. I had it fitted today.

And you guys definitely gave me the confidence to go ahead. Thank you very much.

Having had various gynae treatments over the years. This was not too bad.

Same as a smear initially, then a bit longer to get the coil in, but only a minute or 2 more.

Cramping feelings now.

They told me no sex for 7 days, and I can go back in 6 -8 weeks for a check to see if still in the correct place if I am nervous.

For HRT use can be in place for 5 years.

Contraception 3 I think?

Told me to keep taking my utrogestan for 1 week at 2 a night, and can take for 6 weeks at 1 a night after that if I want.

Lots of mention of bleeding. We shall see.

Thanks so much again everyone.

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Droolylabradors · 16/07/2024 13:07

I was told HRT 5 and contraception 8. (licence has just changed to 8.)

MummyMiddle · 18/03/2025 13:04

Hi @NameWithChange
How has the coil gone for you? Thinking of having one as I am struggling with utrogestan.

NameWithChange · 18/03/2025 13:22

Sadly not good - sorry to say.

I could feel it. I persevered for a month, but honestly whenever I sat down - or drove for more than about 10 mins I could feel something deep inside. It was really uncomfortable and didn’t improve.

so I had it removed. They did check and said it looked to be in the right place, but I just wanted it out, the feeling was driving me nuts.

sadly, after it came out I bled really heavily. They say this is normal but it was awful - flooding and changing pads about every 2 hours 24 hours a day. After a week I persuaded a male Dr (who kept telling me it was normal) that it was worse than after giving birth and I had never known bleeding like it, to give me some medication to ease the flow. It helped. The bleeding subsided, but honestly it was awful. Never again!

I have 2 friends who have had it recently though and no probs at all. So I think I would recommend giving it a go. It could be hugely beneficial.

incidentally I was worried about it being removed but I barely felt it - going in was worse than coming out. But not awful. Bearable - take a nurofen before if you can and it is over quick

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MummyMiddle · 18/03/2025 14:52

Oh no that’s not good. I had one 10 years ago when I wasn’t perimenopausal and I felt the same. That I could feel it. I was just hoping it was me not giving it time as lots seem to get on with it. Not sure I want to risk it. I’ll have to stick with the body identical progesterone but just worried it’s not enough to counteract oestrogen of HRT and I don’t want womb lining to thicken.
its such fun being a woman!

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