I have posted a few times across the year about this but never put my whole story together. Like many women, the advice I can get from my local HCPs varies in quality and is often reactive to health problems in the 5 minute slot, rather than in depth (they are not anti HRT though - definitely not so there's that) and even the specialist HRT nurse is a bit stumped. Buckle up : long.
I really am just after advice- or to hear from people with similar issues.
I first went to GP about 18 months ago (aged 51) just because I felt the time had come to go on HRT. My periods were very regular but had become heavier and I was getting night sweats and sleeplessness. Been suffering from sleep anxiety and stomach and nausea issues for about 8-10 years (may be unrelated, who knows?)
HRT number one - prescribed Elleste Duet on lowest dose. Pretty much fine. Night sweats zapped.
Three month consultation with HRT nurse - decided to try patches. I think this was mainly because tablets aren't all that popular to prescribe any more for lots of reasons always discussed on this board.
HRT number two - Evorel Sequi 25. All fine . No problems, until...
About two months into this I got a breakthrough bleed. No biggie , I thought, especially since not PMB. But reported to a (different) GP (as leaflet advised) who reacted to this by sending me for a scan and telling me (I now know wrongly) to stop the HRT. This scan led to confusion because she had noted me down as post menopausal so the scan recorded the womb lining as too thick (8mm) . After some umming and aahing they decided against a hysteroscopy. So, this was a 5 month break from any HRT. In this time, I developed constant nosebleeds (had had a few whilst on patches) but no one seemed aware of the link to hormonal fluctuations and nosebleeds despite me telling them!
HRT number three- 5 months later, to my relief, HRT nurse put me back on patches but at a higher dose. I proved to be horrifically allergic to these (assuming the adhesive)Nosebleeds abated quite a bit. I looked like a sunburnt giraffe.
HRT number four - Another GP (who specialises in menopause) suggested to try the gel 'because you must be allergic to the adhesive in the patches'. Even more allergic to this! Lenzetto spray suggested but not prescribed because reading suggests people can be allergic to that too. I never got round to the Utrogestan bit do have no idea whether I'd be OK with it.
HRT number five - Elleste Duet but 2mg (higher strength). This phase has been awful except for nosebleeds and night sweats stopped. In the second half of the month I have been sick every time (which also happened when not on HRT). I mean really really sick : vomiting, bedridden, urgent care , days off work sick and have had really horrible flooding, very bad 'PMT' and terrible ovary pain (and shingles, raised BP and raised cholesterol, just for added fun times). I think the tablets are to blame for a lot of this but can't know without giving them up. Another scan suggested womb had thickened a bit more (9.2) but not alarmingly and have gynae referral but it's in mid September- at which point I plan to push for them to eliminate endometriosis. (I have had Ca 125 tests come back clear)
So, three days ago, I thought 'sod this' and decided to try a month on patches and see if I am sick in the second half of month. I had some 50s left over. I know I should have expected it but I'm still allergic...
I guess these are my choices:
- Decide painful allergic reaction and red rashes is better than being really ill every month and put up with patches (assuming I am right that the Elleste was making me sick)
- Try Elleste 25 patches again which I had no allergy to, bizarrely, but perhaps put up with some nosebleeds and more symptoms (who knows, maybe upping the doses was wrong?) And maybe discover I am allergic to those now too.
- Mirena Coil is a no go for me for a range of reasons before that gets suggested.
- Push for going on continuous HRT which at least should stop heavy monthly bleeds? But what kind, since I seem to be allergic to life.
- Give p on HRT altogether, have nosebleeds 5 times a week and some night sweats and lose all the other longer term protective benefits. (I have never really had any other major symptoms) Then I will find out if am post menopausal or not, at least.
I am making light of this a bit. I've found the whole thing bewildering, confusing, distressing and depressing - and am constantly anaemic due to either nosebleeds when HRT less or flooding when on current HRT. I love the work Davina and co have done but they do make going on HRT seem really stress free and straightforward and I seem to be not able to get it right and to have reached an impasse.
Would welcome anyone's two pennies worth!