I'm 49, still having fairly regular periods but definitely experiencing perimenopausal symptoms. The most troublesome symptoms are anxiety (I often have feelings of panic welling up inside me), sleep problems and brain fog.
The brain fog can be a bit scary at times. I sometimes struggle to find the right words or I use completely the wrong word. It's only hours later when I think back to the conversation that I realise I used the wrong word. I'm generally a bit more forgetful and have trouble concentrating. The poor sleep really doesn't help the brain fog.
During the last few months at work I've made a few mistakes. Nothing serious but it's becoming noticeable. Last week my manager brought it up and asked if everything was OK. He's a lovely guy, very understanding and supportive but clearly hadn't even heard of the perimenopause - only menopause. He's early 30s and admits he's no expert on women's health but was keen to support me. I felt a little embarrassed discussing my hormonal problems with a young man, although I shouldn't do.
Is there anything I can take or do to help? I try and eat a healthy diet. Lots of fruit and veg. I walk a lot. I take the Menopace supplement and magnesium at bedtime.
I was hoping to avoid HRT but should I just go for it? Has anyone else with similar symptoms been helped by HRT? I don't have hot flushes or anything but this brain fog is getting my down now. I'm starting to feel like an incompetent idiot.