I am 50 and feel I’ve been in peri from the age of 45/46 when things started to go tits up with my physical and mental health.
I can’t say I’ve had too many day or night sweats although I do get them from time to time but I do have zero libido these days, aches and pains worse than ever before, anger and rage, low tolerance to many things, dry and sore down below, dry and itchy skin etc.
Tbh, I can put up with all the above but the issue(s) which are a huge concern for me is awful, awful anxiety and depression (trying to work on this) and the most terrible exacerbation of my 25 year long struggle with digestive issues (diagnosed with IBS).
I have had endless gastro tests over the last 2 years and (thankfully) all come back clear but I just can not get a grip of these daily digestive woes and that alone is causing me untold anxiety and depression (actually feel I’d be free of my mental health issues if only my guts were calm, vicious cycle , I know).
I have nausea, burping, acid, bloating, farting excessively, gurgling and growling guts, I’m IBS-d so often have an upset tummy and urgency in the morning.
I’ve tried everything, literally everything to ease these symptoms (diets, various foods, eliminating certain foods, probiotics, live yogurt and kefir, medication, alternative medication and hypnotherapy), you name it, I’ve tried it. I tried hrt patches and they made things worse.
The more I look into this (I keep a symptom and food diary) the more I’m convinced that a lot of my symptoms are becoming cyclical with my menstrual cycle. The nausea is worse mid cycle for instance.
Has anyone else found this to be an issue?