What i don't understand with these threads is why it's HRT versus non HRT.
There are loads of different sorts of HRTs types and regimes. It can take a bit of trial and error to find the best. These posts encouraging people to ditch HRT altogether seem a bit OTT to me.
If this is what you want to do that's great, and fine. However, you talk about HRT in a very blanket way when I'm presuming you've tried one sort and one regime?
For me, as I described on another thread, I tried a regime that didn't work so well for me and extreme hunger yes was part of that. But now I'm on a regime that does work for me and I don't have that issue.
I share people's frustrations in the sense that I think the internet and also some websites, can be too generalising. If you were experiencing that much water retention, I personally might be inclined to try and different sort. (UNless it was just very early days in which case it can be worth giving the body a chance to get used to things).
The more I explore HRT with friends, the more I realise that we don't all respond the same way and some of the problems I've had both before taking HRT and after on the regime that wasn't the best for me, others haven't suffered at all. Whereas they have had other symptoms. So it is quite individual.
But rather than just convincing me to rip off the patches, it just makes me feel that we need more sensitivity to respond to women's needs so that people can find (if they want to) the type of product and regime that works for them.
For me the gains of HRT are quite profound. I knew, even when having side effects, that it was making such a difference for me that there should be an answer for my symptoms here, even if it required a bit of tweaking or working out with a doc.
None of us know what the future holds, or whether our choice is the right one. But for me, I have important benefits in the present that make we want to continue with it in the present, as well as hopefully guarding bone health etc.