Has anyone experienced this? I'm only 44 and perimenopausal. Currently been 11 weeks since my last period so things are really progressing (I think I started in peri around 4 to 5 years ago). I'm not on hrt as I'm currently awaiting an op to check for endometriosis and the consultant says no hrt until I have confirmation of endo as the hormones could make it worse. A few nights ago during sex I realised my clitoris felt numb and DH looked and said it wasn't there. We had to kind of tease it out (tmi sorry) and then was fine but it has definitely retracted and is smaller. I've always had a fairly large prominent clitoris and am terrified it is going to disappear forever. Any experience or advice appreciated! This menopause thing really sucks!