Does/has anyone had this issue and have any advice? I am 47 and assuming this is menopause related - fuck me, my breasts are so painful! It's like that tender/heavy pain you have with PMS, but it's been a few weeks now and it's not PMS. (Definitely not pregnant btw!) I can't take HRT.
I am (luckily I guess) small framed with small breasts - 34A/B so imagine this would be even worse with bigger breasts. (Sympathies for anyone affected if this is true!) I don't normally wear bras unless I'm wearing an outfit that looks better with one, or I want to wear a particular matching lingerie set 
so the few bras I have are lacy frilly underwired type things.
The solution is obviously some kind of support but sadly I'm really awkward. I don't want to have to wear an uncomfortable bra all the time, I don't like hooks and eyes or wire and I don't like having to drag elastic-y tight sports bra things over my head which always go all rolled up and annoy me. I also can't put my arms behind my back but I don't want an ugly front fastening thing. I would like something "pretty" not just functional. I like lace if it's not itchy. If I could wear it in the day and also just keep it on overnight that would be good. I would like it in coral/pink/nude as well as black.
Ideally I'd quite like a cantilever thing installed under each breast which I can just prop them on, but in the absence of this, does anyone have any ideas? I'm really demanding and annoying as you can tell already and I'll probably say no to every suggestion if anyone would like to have a go however I'll be really grateful!
I'm going to post this in menopause and Style and Beauty topics to maximise my chances! (I'd like to say my budget is around £20 but I know I'll have to go over it as I'm such a fussy fucker)