I am considering asking my GP if I could have testosterone.
I am 47, perimenopausal and have been on HRT for 18 months. The HRT has definitely helped reduce hot flushes, night sweats, dry eyes and joint pain. I'm not sure it has helped my brain fog, horrendous tiredness or lack of libido at all as these three things are still a major issue for me.
I understand why for most women, testing their oestrogen levels prior to staring HRT isn't best practise. However, I'm not clear whether the same thing goes for testosterone?
I guess I don't want to 'blame' these three symptoms on low testosterone if that isn't a factor.....
The tiredness is debilitating and blood tests haven't shown any cause. I can and have fallen asleep over my breakfast, woken up over an hour later and missed appointments. I often doze off after work. These days if I'm sitting down I have to set an alarm on my phone in case I accidentally fall asleep. I feel tired all the time and all I want to do with any spare time is rest.
My libido is non existent. I love my husband, and I do enjoy sex once we get going but am never ever in the mood to initiate and I feel guilty that we have sex very infrequently. He is understanding but I don't want to be this way. It is like I'm not a sexual person anymore.
Any thoughts or advice would be wonderful.