I think I am extremely perimenopausal. All number of symptoms but the ones I was hoping to ask for other people's experience of is the ick or just nothingness for their DH or DP. I've always been a "marriage is for life, the children are just passing through" person but now I absolutely adore and would fight for the children (11 &8) and absolutely neutral towards DH. He pulls more than his weight, is ridiculously nice to me considering how grumpy I can be but, honestly, if I found out he was having an affair, my current thoughts are, ok as long as I don't get the details or a STI.
This isn't normal for me. Will my feelings change again post menopausal?
And just to make it worse, my libido is so high for any other man I even walk past.
As I say,v presumably this is all natural, but as we don't live in a natural way, that isn't very helpful!
All advice welcome! Thank you.