@Renter77 If you are in the peri age range- which is roughly 45+ (sometimes younger) then there are no tests done for peri, just a trial of HRT.
If you are younger, your GP would be right to do blood tests to rule out other diseases.
It's best to read the NICE menopause guidance (2015) online that states very firmly that ADs are not to be used for peri /mood/ psychological issues in women in peri. You can then challenge your GP if they are stubborn!
Go in with a list of your symptoms.
Say you want to try HRT and have read the NICE guidance (take a copy in if you want to.)
Say you want to try HRT and body identical type and say which sort.
Just be pleasant and matter of fact about it.
If they refuse, ask what medical grounds there are for refusing, and say you want an NHS referral to a gynae to discuss it with.
I am also not sure which hormone I should be taking. Or if it’s the actual right treatment for me. I just want to feel normal all month, rather than normal for only half my life!
HRT comes as two hormones- estrogen and a progesterone. The latter is needed to protect your womb lining from growing too thick, so it's taken for half the month (or daily in women post menopause.
If you still want to try a private dr, be aware of the long term costs, unless they write to your GP with their recommendations and your GP takes over the prescribing.
Costs for a first consultation vary but are around £300. Further appts are approx 60% of that and needed usually once or twice a year. Requests for repeat prescriptions are around £35 for the admin, then you pay for the HRT as a private prescription - around £50 a month but it varies on how much you use.