Also posted in chat but moveed it here.
NC'd. I'm 41 and probably about to be diagnised with premature ovarian failure. My periods have been hit and miss since about age 38, and tailing off to one or two a year for the last 2-3 years. Last period was end of jan/beginning of feb. 4 early MC.
The Gynaecologist has recommended HRT until about age 50. My GP has asked for a mammogram before she prescribes it. I have a blood test on monday to check my thyroid, autoimmune markers etc.
But, other than slight dryness and lack of libido, I have no other symptoms. I know HRT protects your heart and bones, but I've had a bone densitity scan and a more in-depth one for younger people and my bones are fine.
We would like to try IVF but the gynaecologist said we'd need an egg doner. I had an internal ultrasound the other day to check my ovaries and they are in atrophy. So I don't know where we would get with IVF. We Will need to wait for our house to sell before doing anything and she said if we are going to do it, its needs to be sooner rather than later so we don't have time to mess around. Which we knew anyway. She said take the HRT and then if we do IVF, they will adjust everything so taking it won't affect that.
But what will HRT do? I know nothing about it other than there's a breast cancer link. Its hard to speak to the doctors in depth because we have to wear the FFP2 masks still here.
Apparently it will it bring back periods? Why on earth would I want to do that with no chance of getting pregnant? Fuck that noise.
Once I start taking it, what will happen if I stop? Am I commiting to it for the next ten years? What will happen while I'm finding the right dosage?
I was reading something the other day that said once you are 12 months without a period, you are classed as postmenopausal, so is this it for symptoms? Or have I got the worst to come? I have no idea whether I've got all the awful symptoms that women talk about, to come or whether I'm nearly out the other side. If so, do I need the HRT?
I would like my libido back as its non existent atm, and why I originally went to the GP over this anyway. I really could never have it again and just sort myself out occasionally, which is so unlike 'me' and its not really what I want. Plus a sexless marriage isn't fair to my husband. Would the HRT even fix that?
I know there are issues with getting HRT prescribed in the UK, but I have health cover here and can ask the GP for what I want - if I research it and find out what I want - and probably get whatever I ask for prescribed. I don't know what the cover is for prescriptions and how much it is if I have to pay for them.
So, would you take it and is it likely to help me?