I’m the OP, this was a while ago now but just to update and give a bit more background for anyone searching this topic. I’m 47 now and this all started when I was 44.
I went private to get testosterone. In fact the private clinic offered me the option of only having testosterone as all my symptoms could be put down to that and my levels were measurably low. It also, as far as there is evidence, carries no risk. But as I was entering perimenopause, and testosterone can be converted to oestrogen if those levels start falling I went the whole hog and got all three hormones.
This was after a very unsatisfactory NHS experience where my GP, though very sympathetic, didn’t know what to do and sent me to an endocrine clinic who also had no idea what to do with me. I know now that I should have asked my GP to refer me to a menopause clinic.
Once privately prescribed, I asked for a referral as it’s expensive (probably spent about £1k and am very lucky to have had the means). It was about a six month wait but obviously I’d already started with HRT and they did then agree for me to transfer to NHS prescribing. Oestrogen and utrogestan no issue. Testosterone I had to ‘see if the GP felt comfortable prescribing it’ despite the clinic being the specialists and recommending it. Luckily they did (young, male doctor so that was more positive). Same as pp, he did over prescribe, giving me a box of 30 tubes of Testim gel and telling me it was a month’s supply. That’s the male dose.
I didn’t really like the idea of giving up the private Androfeme but at least Testim comes in tubes not sachets so you can put the cap on each time, strongly recommend if you can deal with the fragrance. I use one tube over 10 days. So the box lasts most of a year. The dosage doesn’t have to be completely exact each day. I use it every day without fail.
As for my libido it’s still not amazing but definitely better than it was, and its other effects have been amazing. I am much stronger, have more stamina and motivation.