So last year at 43 I felt a bit rubbish, I was and am still having regular periods but was just feeling blah. Tired all the time, joints a bit sore, skin looked crap, deflated boobs etc. I saw the Davina documentry at the time and thought I might be in perimenopause. I decided to ask my GP for a trial of HRT, I had to push a bit to get it but in the end she let me have a trial. I really did feel better on it more energy, restless legs vanished, joints no longer sore, seemed to age backwards and boobs filled out. So I have stayed on it and fully intend to stay on HRT (Evoral Patches & Utrogestan) for as long as I can / forever.
I did discuss this with a friend of mine who has said I'm wrong to start using HRT so early or pre-emptively. She said I was using it as an anti-ageing treatment as opposed to treatment of menopausal symptoms.
I suspect that the earlier into perimenopause HRT the more robust the benefits are in terms of preserving things like bone, muscle and collagen and perhaps the risks could be greater as well but surely that is my choice? HRT is cleared for use in peri so why not use it if I want to and feel the benefit of it? I do look better on it and I like that but I'm not using it purely for cosmetic reasons. In my admittedly anecdotal experience women who do start it earlier and stay on it seem to age much slower, isn't that a good thing? Who wouldn't want to hold off old age and frailty?