Help!!!
Ive got myself into a situation, im 39, 5 kids aged 7 to 18, with dp20 years. Recently been feeling really low all the time, headaches, fatigue, low self esteem, brain fog and constantly needing to pee.
My periods have been regular as clockwork since my last baby until I had covid last year, had an awful experience where i passed out and woke up in a pool of blood. It was like i'd had a miscarriage but that is not possible as dp had a vasectomy 7 years ago. Then i bled for weeks like after giving birth. Finally started to get back into routine for the last 4 months ive been regular. This is where my situation turns bad. Things have been rocky at home recently and i made a really bad decision and had sex with another guy. My period was just starting so we stupidly didnt use precautions. I was confident that I wouldn't be pregnant due to timings. That evening i started bleeding heavily. Next morning however my cup was empty just traces of blood. Started to panic slightly, could i be pregnant? could i be starting the menopause? I did a pregnancy test which was negative but surely its too soon to get a positive if i only had sex 3 days prior. Ive had a feel and my cervix is low and open but really hard. Im sure this isnt normal. I really don't know what to do. Im going to speak to my dr ASAP but stressing out. Ive not slept at all since that night. Its now 6 days since and apart from a bit of spotting no sign of my period. Has anyone been through early menopause? Are my symptoms consistent with that?
Sorry to go on but i literally cannot talk to anyone about this. Im so stupid!