Hi everyone. : )
My background is that I'm 51, have had masses of symptoms for the past 6 years, insomnia, aching joints, night sweats, hot flushes, IBS, low mood, loss of libido, tinnitus, itchy skin, memory problems, palpitations, irritability, well the list goes on, not pleasant to be around I'm certain! 
Always largely explained away with other diagnoses, including depression, cue prescription of Sertraline, I then sort of gave up looking for answers as this seemed to fit.
Fast forward to now, obviously Covid put paid to F2F Dr visits for a while and symptoms increased. My hair is thinning but seems to have gone curlier and more wiry and I have dry skin now too. My stomach is bloated, I have weight gain, boobs are much bigger and heavier and I'm SO tired ALL the time it's just frustrating as hell - as I'm sure you can all relate to. Eye bags galore. 
I've been reading for a little while here and soaked up all the info here from you all and the increase of up to date info over Menopause Day, the Balance app etc and finally asked my GP for HRT.
Initially she suggested antidepressants again! To help with the night sweats not because I was depressed she hastened to add. Having read so many of you also experienced this plus having checked the NICE guidelines which clearly state this should not be offered, I managed to decline these saying I didnt think they were appropriate. 
I have family history of cancer but again had checked that gel or patch along with Utrogestan tablets would not be as risky. She agreed with this but still said the risk was high and that after 5 years the risk rose incrementally. I will need to check this as I thought this was no longer the case?
Anyway, to cut a long story short, she agreed to prescribe me with gel - I have Oestrogel (I'm to try 1-2 pumps) and also Utrogestan 100mg tablets. Finally to my question - well done if you're still hanging on, haha - there were two options of these, to take for 25 days then a break, when I may or may not get a period again apparently (mine had dropped to every 3/4 months) or to have 200mg tablets and only take them for fewer days. My Dr couldn't tell me if there were pro's and con's with either so I am wondering what everyone's experiences are?
They need to be taken on an empty stomach so cant see me getting up an hour before breakfast to do that!
I did remember reading that some get on better using them internally but when I mentioned this, she was surprised and said this wasnt what they were prescribed for and that pessaries were not available?! By this point, my levels of confidence to contradict were well and truly shot so I just accepted this. 
Also there was no mention of testosterone at all? Should this form part of my treatment?