Hi, I hope this kind of question is allowed as I can't seem to find any info about it. It is quite personal so I'm not sure if anyone will want to answer but here goes. I have been on anti depressants for about 10 years and have had a lack of libido in all of that time, I'm 48 years old and have also been suffering with awful night sweats so my GP pot me on HRT patches called evorel sequi and it was brilliant. Literally had the first orgasm i'd had in 10 years, sorry it's getting personal but this was obviously putting a strain on my marriage too as I never, ever wanted to have sex. The thing is for the 1st fortnight I'd have sex and orgasm but when I changed to the other patches for the next fortnight my breasts were so tender even wearing a bra hurt. Anyhoo I had high blood pressure so was told to come off the HRT straight away. My GP rang me about a month ago and said I could try something different which is now I am on everol but I also have to take take 1 utrogestan 100mg tablet every night. This has put me back to square one in that I have no libido again and my breasts/nipples are so sore I can't even touch them properly even just to get washed never mind being touched by my husband. I feel embarrassed to say outright to the GP about it as I never get to speak to the same one half the time. Last time I spoke to her I just said my breasts were sore all the time, I didn't mention my sex life in case she thought it wasn't really important, it is yet again putting strain on my marriage as I don't want to have sex at all. She said I should go on the mirena coil so my question is does anyone know if that would make a difference, ie not having to take the utrogestan tablet every night and having the coil instead. I can't see how it would make a difference if the coil will be giving off progesterone constantly. Thank you to anyone who read all the way through, I really hope someone could advise me or hoping someone else may have had the same problem and got it sorted out. Thanks in advance.