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Induced menopause... irritability, can't take HRT

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MountainDweller · 19/06/2021 00:08

I've been in a medically induced menopause through GnRH medication for 10 years, since I was 44. This is because I have endometriosis and scar tissue on my cervix from it that couldn't be removed surgically without doing a hysterectomy, plus my surgeon thinks there is some microscopic endo that he couldn't remove. The long-term treatment is off-label (and private) but seems to work- there was improvement after my third surgery but further improvement after starting the drugs. I have no bleeding and pain is much reduced. I'm not taking HRT because the treatment works better without it - I don't want to add oestrogen back in to feed the endometriosis. I just have an oestrogen vaginal cream to help with dryness at as low a dose as I can manage.

All this is just background really - I've read some threads about menopause and irritability and have realised that's me! Everything makes me grumpy and it's been going on for ages... I feel like it's crept in insidiously. It's not like the 'old' me, who was quite a nice person... I'd like her back! Just wondering if there's anything I can try, given that I can't do HRT. In a few years when I'm hopefully fully menopausal I'll come off the meds - I've no idea whether the natural version will be better or worse than the current one! To complicate matters I'm on a lot of other meds, mostly strong pain meds for mobility issues, but I'm on anti-depressants too... I guess I have reasons to be irritable anyway so it might be a bit of both.

Thanks for any help.

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MountainDweller · 20/06/2021 23:42

Thanks BobCatBob. Sorry you had such severe endo. Mine wasn't even very severe, except in one place where it had really taken hold and the diagnosis delay made in not possible to remove. But I still had pain after the last surgery that wasn't explained by that. It's such a complicated and shitty disease! Unfortunately I had a terrible experience with an acupuncturist which has put me off Chinese medicine but I'll bear it in mind. I do have a lot to deal with (and since I posted found out my cat is dying too). I suppose I would love the irritability to be something I could just take a supplement for! I am desperate for a magic button for several problems Sad Nervous about coming off the GnRH drugs too because the devil you know always seems a better bet!

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