More VA joy, sorry. I’m really struggling with VA (not least with feelings of furious anger that it wasn’t explicitly addressed the first time I went to the GP three years ago...) but anyway.
I’m currently using the rubber-ring-up-the-fanjo as I didn’t like the ovestin cream you shove up with the plastic thing and wanted something I didn’t have to think about. In terms of dryness the estring is working but I have to take it out before sex, which all feels very in-spontaneous and is making me miserable in a new and different way. (Story of my menopause really - feel miserable about x, seek treatment, treatment makes me miserable about y.) I gather vagifem is tablets instead, is that right? Are they easy? Forgettable? Effective? Also has anyone tried an internal pelvic floor trainer device eg Elvie or similar, and did it make any difference?
I’m not on HRT. I tried twice and my mental health went through the floor both times; haven’t had a period for years (early menopause masked by contraceptive implant). It seems that I’m now too far down the road for them to try HRT again, assuming I wanted to risk it.
Thanks in advance for any help or advice. I’m only 48 and feel as though I am shrivelling and ancient, it is all a bit grim 