[quote JinglingHellsBells]@ZaraCarmichaelshighheels Try to answer some of that!
There is a bit of a two-tier system with HRT.
Many medical experts (meno consultants) would give you HRT if you wanted it for a) very mild symptoms or b) to protect your future health.
This is discussed in a podcast with consultant Nick Panay on the Liz Earle Wellbeing website where she asks him just that.
it is highly unlikely that a GP would do the same and would expect you to have real quality of life issues now with peri / post meno symptoms.
IF you had a bone density issue now, HRT is licensed for use in women under 60 as a treatment.
Some women do really well with no HRT so it's not accurate to say you would get osteoporosis, or heart disease without it. If your only symptoms are / were vaginal/bladder etc, they like to try vaginal estrogen first .
However, many women are at risk of osteoporosis without knowing until it's too late.
I wish all women age 55 were given an NHS bone density test and then they could choose the right treatment if needed before it was too late. In fact I think they should swap cervical screening for bone density scans because the number of women dying from osteo complications is hundreds of thousands a year, compared to around 2000 cervical cancer deaths.
So no, HRT is not essential if you have no symptoms, BUT for someone who has a family history of heart disease, or low bone density , or is at risk for other reasons, it's probably worth having that kind of discussion with a medical expert.[/quote]
Exactly this. For me in it a no brainer. Osteroporsis runs in the family.
As I said I think (I'm pretty sure of this!) that a quick email asking them to put into writing the the GP surgery and its GP have a no HRT policy -will result in a phone call consultation and you being offered HRT. Be assertive -if /when a GP phone call is offered -ask to speak to one that is supportive of HRT. A male or female GP SHOULD give the same professional advice.
Locally a girl aged 16 very sensibly went to see a local GP and asked to be put on the pill. He refused and told her to concentrate on her schooling and not boys. The bollocking he got later was unreal. Unfortunately some GPs (partners etc) can be up themselves and it'snot great. Just ask the PM I think this one will be quickly sorted. It pisses me off no end that women are fobbed off with period pain, menopause etc as they are seen as 'women problems' and we should put up and shut up. From the age of 14 I had horrendous period pains absolutely awful a visit to the GP at 16 with my mother -resulted in a flea in my ear by the female GP about how I was making a big song and dance about it. Aged 25 I went to see a male GP about my knee and was clutching a mini hot water bottle down the front of my trousers, he asked what it was and then spent the next 6 weeks pushing through referrals,taking blood samples, scans etc and then the relief of getting proper medication to shorten them and make them lighther. He saved me from 20 years of pain or about 240 weeks of pain or 4 1/2 years of crippling pain. Women should not be silent or ignored for 'women's issues'