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Anybody else 56 or older and still getting periods?

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PollyPelargonium52 · 26/12/2019 08:48

Hi I am still blessed with the curse. AFter 3 years of erratic periods I had thought they finally stopped in January 2019. Then in September they came back! One normal one then one much lighter one then one with just a mere drip a day more or less lol.

This one for Xmas has been quite heavy! Nice gift from Santa lol.

Is it just me as a friend of mine knows of literally nobody who has them at this age still and she had stacks of women friends so is representative of many.

Also I recently had a 3 week migraine in the build up to my period. I am used to a few days of a migraine but nothing like that.

It isn't a full lie in a darkened room migraine but enough to totally ruin quality of life.

My son''s half sister says it is because I am still young and my body is good working order lol. I don't feel that I am sick to death of them!

They started when I was 11 after all. They are also really clockwork now. With sore breasts for up to 3 weeks. Nice.

Any thoughts out there please?

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ErnestJones · 31/12/2019 10:42

I’m 54 and in October I had an unexpected MC (during my MIL’s funeral FGS) when I didn’t even know I was pg. I thought I was having a flood but then recognised some missed MC signs. Someone on here told me to do a pg test which I did. However, the hospital consultant didn’t believe that a 54 year old woman could conceive naturally so he misdirected people towards my “molar”pregnancy which then resulted in a prolonged wait and me contracting sepsis.

I think I’m alright now but keep taking the pills, everyone, take the pills!

borntobequiet · 01/01/2020 08:08

I did some research when in my late 50s and found this:
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1560739/UK-woman-59-worlds-oldest-natural-mother.html
Like a pp said, keep taking the pills (or equivalent). And apparently a late menopause has some health benefits
well.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/07/31/ask-well-late-menopause/
(These are mainstream media links but medical sources confirm)

borntobequiet · 01/01/2020 08:12

Oh and Earnest your consultant was a massive dimwit. Why don’t these people take two minutes to Google when confronted with something out of the ordinary? I had to direct my GP to the story about the 59 yo conception and make her refer me to a specialist menopause clinic. TBF she then did so immediately.

PollyPelargonium52 · 28/01/2020 05:11

How is everybody on here? I just got my monthly period yesterday. :(

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TanteRose · 28/01/2020 05:26

I'm still only 51 and pretty regular still here - every three weeks tho, and over Xmas I had a 20 day period!
I had pretty bad anemia last year but iron supplements sorted that out. I'm also on tranexamic acid for day 1 and 2 of period.

A friend of mine got pregnant aged 54 but sadly MCed. Her periods stopped shortly after that, I think.

I also had to replace my menstrual cup last year so I'm still glad I'm getting my money's worth for the moment Grin

Monty27 · 28/01/2020 05:31

All done and dusted by time I was 50. Including hrt. See a GP and get blood tests followed by medical advice.
It's the next stage of your life. You need to look after yourself. Shock

finkploydthethird · 28/01/2020 05:35

52 and still going here. My mother just stopped at 50 with no menopausal symptoms whatsoever Envy

BasiliskStare · 28/01/2020 05:39

sent PM

squeamishsquamish · 28/01/2020 05:41

Mine stopped two years ago when I was 55.

JinglingHellsBells · 28/01/2020 08:04

I was almost 53. The regular ones stopped when I was 52 and a few months, then I had a couple of light bleeds at almost 53 (but there was a query then if it was a blip in my HRT.) I didn't think so as I had PMT type signs at the time, but who knows. Both my mum and gran were 50-ish.

borntobequiet · 28/01/2020 08:09

Painful cramps and light spotting last week despite Mirena (which itself makes cramps worse, I can feel the damn thing). I had hoped 2020 would bring relief...but no.

TurduckenFucken · 28/01/2020 08:10

I’m a mere whippersnapper at 49, but mine are still monthly, regular as clockwork. Only started using reusable pads this last year so I’m pleased I might get my money’s worth. Grin

PollyPelargonium52 · 28/01/2020 12:41

They don't call it the curse for nothing.

On the plus side it keeps our face looking lovely and youthful. I am always told I look a good ten years younger than my age.

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Xylophonics · 28/01/2020 19:02

I'm 50 and had thought they'd stopped as I had a 6 month break, however they seem to have reappeared and I've had 3 since November Hmm - last one was heavy.

During that time Tampax seems to have reverted to non plastic which has to be a good thing.
Have not heard of reusable pads, will have to look them up.

over50andfab · 29/01/2020 09:48

@borntobequiet I feel for you!

I was having pretty horrendous but more sporadic periods at 56 (think ½pt+ loss each time - I used a mooncup and pads for years and measured it once!). I had a Mirena coil put in and other than the odd dark discharge all has been bliss. I haven’t a clue what will happen when the coil comes out - might just have another one in as I’m also on estrogen patches now (bone health lowers CVD risk) Slim size btw, I think it’s all hereditary when we start/stop periods.

I don’t have much in the way of menopausal symptoms other than brain fog and crying easily, but the one that did start with a vengeance not long after the coil went in was Vaginal Atrophy. So anyone who is of menopausal age but still getting periods and finding their fanjos getting sore/dry or getting bladder frequency, there is topical estrogen that can help.

The stuff my mother never told me Confused

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