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What changes can you expect at 37?

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anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 17:48

Over the last year I've started experiencing changes in my body. Is 37 too young for menopause?

I've had a uti, a stomach infection, a cervical ectropian (although a clear smear), my periods have always been irregular but one was extremely light to the point I didn't need a pad, I've had thrush, a bad back, random muscle twitches in my neck and I am finding it very very hard to lose weight. All of which is making my anxiety levels sky high.

Someone tell me I'm not going batshit crazy

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MummaPI · 28/10/2018 18:10

I started noticing changes about then, also feeling batshit crazy!!
I guess it's just the start of another stage

anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 18:23

That is reassuring 

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MummaPI · 28/10/2018 18:55

Always worth a visit to the doc to be checked but bat shit crazy is definitely a symptom!! 😁

PickleForPresident · 28/10/2018 19:09

I had my first child at 37, so no I didn't notice any changes. Surely 37 is far too young for menopause?

MummaPI · 28/10/2018 19:19

Not menopause but the beginnings of Peri perhaps? I had symptoms from 37 which were hormonal

anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 19:43

I've been to the docs about a gazzilion times and been told by 3 different gps that my hormones are changing cos of my age. It's the anxiety I really need to get a grasp of it's causing far too much overthinking and overgoogling!

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anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 19:44

Yes sorry I meant the start of perimenopause. My mum was fully through menopause by age 47

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Emerald13 · 28/10/2018 19:46

You need to check your FSH and your thyroid. Nobody is too young for menopause, 37 is young but it is happens sometimes. If you feel that something is wrong with your body, just ask for help.

sollyfromsurrey · 28/10/2018 19:51

Slightly hi jacking here... if the period of time leading up to menopause is 'peri menopause' and once your periods have stopped for a year you have 'reached the menopause', I take it once you have reached the menopause, you are 'post menopausal'. Is that correct? So the day after the one year of no periods are you 'post menopausal '?

In which case, when are you 'going through the menopause '? Is that the bit where your periods have stopped and you are waiting to get to a year?

anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 20:04

I don't feel like there is anything wrong, just a series of things. I'm not sure if it's the physical symptoms causing anxiety or the anxiety causing physical symptoms if you know what I mean. Things seem to get worse because I overthink

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anxiousanniekins · 28/10/2018 20:05

I've posted about this on mental health too because I think it could be the root of my problem

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QueenoftheNights · 29/10/2018 10:05

They don't sound like peri symptoms and you are too young unless it's a premature menopause. (periods stop by 40) or early menopause (periods stop by 47.)

The only things from your list are one light period and weight gain.

Both of those could be lifestyle related ( periods are affected by stress) and at 37 your metabolism will be slowing down as you approach 40, so more exercise and less food needed!

Time to see your GP is if your periods become erratic for months on end and you are under 45.

QueenoftheNights · 29/10/2018 10:07

In which case, when are you 'going through the menopause '? Is that the bit where your periods have stopped and you are waiting to get to a year?

People use these words quite randomly!

Peri meno is the years leading up to the final period.

Post meno is a term used with hindsight- one year after last period.

When people say 'going through the menopause' they mean peri menopausal, but most people don't bother to say the 'peri' bit and just say they are 'menopausal'!

wrongendofthestick · 29/10/2018 10:10

www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/guide-perimenopause#1

Perimenopause, or menopause transition, begins several years before menopause. It's the time when the ovaries gradually begin to make less estrogen. It usually starts in a woman's 40s, but can start in her 30s or even earlier

The average length of perimenopause is 4 years, but for some women this stage may last only a few months or continue for 10 years

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