Sorry you feel as you do.
I don't think any of the drs in that feature have a vested interest. The two who are quoted are open about the fact they use HRT themselves.
I don't think opinions are polarised really. A good dr will give you the facts and let you decide but you also have a personal responsibility ( I think) to do your own research - there are masses of papers online as well as papers from the BMS/IMS.
If you choose HRT they will give you the safest type which is tailored to your needs.
My personal meno experience was that I was never going to use HRT, having had easy pregnancies, no intervention or pain killers for my two deliveries, and no peri symptoms till 51. However, I did discover I had low bone density ( despite no risk factors) so sought the advice of an eminent gynae who had a specific interest in bone health.
I began to really trust their take on the whole meno thing- very balanced, happy to discuss, treated me an equal etc.
In the end when insomnia and flushes made work really hard for me I decided to try HRT . I was given a tailored regime (I don't mean 'bio identicals') taking into account my own risks/ benefits/ lifestyle.
In theory I have a slightly higher risk of BC having had my first child in my 30s, but I hope I am mitigating this by lifestyle choices which reduce baseline risk.
I have done an online BC risk test and my risk is something like 0.3 above the risk for women my age which is down to a later pregnancy.
To reply to your post @thefirstmrsdewinter having a dr you trust is key. Mine tells me there are some risks using HRT (but very small ) but equally there are risks NOT using HRT. Each women makes that choice herself considering her quality of life, what's going on in her life ( ie work, elderly parents, teenagers, whatever) at the time.
No one considers the other risks in life that we all take all the time: statistically, you have more chance of being injured or dying on the road than using HRT- but do we stop driving cars?