Hi, I think I might be in the perimenopause. For few months, my periods have been irregular and lighter; I have really bad insomnia and I've gained weight. I'm 41. I really want to know if I am in the perimenopause and wondered if there was a test to confirm this?
I wish I knew how old my mum was when she went through the menopause, but she died some time ago and she also had a hysterectomy so this would have presumably lead to an early menopause anyway. I understand that my nan however (who has also died) went through the menopause around 43.
I luckily had a child two years ago and I know that my chance of another child is almost non-existent as I am single and had to have IVF to have my daughter, however I feel very sad at the thought of starting the menopause and knowing that there is absolutely no possibility of having another child. I feel that if I know if the menopause is round the corner, I can at least mentally prepare for it. Can anyone advise me? Thank you.