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Is this Perimenopause

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Deadsouls · 26/02/2017 21:31

Hello all, I wondered if anyone had experienced the same, or if I'm just depressed or what the hell is going on. I've been reading up on hormone imbalance and I'm suspecting that I may be off kilter, but anyway...

I'm almost 43. I think my mum started the menopause proper when she was 49. I have really bad night sweats, that wake me up, and to the extent that my nightclothes are wet. I end up taking them off.
My pmt is just awful. I feel tearful, emotional, angry all over the place. I don't sleep properly it feels like ever. Can't remember a good nights sleep.
I feel grumpy and angry a lot of the time. Just pissed off.
There are times when I've been feeling deeply fatigued, exhausted to my bones. I don't know what I want. Maybe just to rest and sleep for a week.
For about 2 weeks out of 4 in my cycle, I get really dry red skin around my mouth and chin. It's quite embarrassing, as it's flaky and nothing alleviates it. Nowhere else just my chin.

The question is, is this just me? Or are these signs of perimenopause.
My period is pretty regular still. Or am I imbalanced hormonally or what?!

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PollyPerky · 01/03/2017 15:06

well , at risk of sounding pompous I'd say I have a good diet because it matters to me and I put a huge amount of effort into ensuring I do. No one can blame anyone else for what they eat.
It's another extreme to abide by Deliciously Ella or whoever- it's all a bit cranky and up to them. Ella had multiple food intolerances (as do I to an extent) so she's got herself fame and fortune by peddling what she eats. It's not for everyone. Just eat normal, healthy food- loads of veg and fruit, lean protein, oily fish, wholegrains, cut out the sugar, snacks and sweets, and it's not that hard.

DesertRose124 · 05/03/2017 19:33

Just halfway through reading this thread and just wanted to mention to snugglepalace that I too have been having cracks at the corner of my mouth. After googling lots I have decided that in my case this is probably due to iron deficiency. Have been taking OTC iron supplements for 2 months and crackshave gone. Also I've had other anaemia symptoms too.

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