There are plenty of studies on how menopause is experienced in different countries and cultures - and there are differences. I looked some of these up a few weeks ago - easy to google. This is a different but interesting issue.
The here and now is though - in our culture women are longer lived than they used to be (eg 40 years post-menopause) and may have to work for 15-20 years of this time. The reason for symptoms may well yield some interesting information but for the time being, given what women have to manage in their lives (work, children, ageing parents etc etc) oestrogen replacement enables them (us) to cope rather than lying on a sofa mopping their brow - of course in addition to important lifestyle changes that might need to be made re diet, weight, exercise, alcohol etc.
By the way just to emphasise - as this point is often forgotten in these discussions - there are the well known symptoms of peri-menopause - of flushes, sweats, mood swings, insomnia, palpitations, anxiety etc - some of which are temporary or they may go on for up to 14 years, and there are the long term physiological effects of oestrogen deficiency beyond the peri-menopausal years - which can be measured independently of perception ie objectively rather than subjectively.
As for Menopause Matters website - why would one not want to point women towards a very informative site that tells you about the menopause as well as HRT and other measures that can relieve symptoms? Where else can you find this information in such a user friendly format? The British Menopause Society and other national and international similar academic institutions/societies are also helpful. Certainly one does not want to rely on the press that's for sure!
Looking forward to seeing the final published NICE Guidelines and hopefully the surrounding publicity will ensure more GPS are up to date.