Have just been to the Doctor who agreed HRT. When I mentioned Oestrogel, as recommended by the lovely, and knowledgeable pinkfrocks, she said it was not one of the recommendations of my region of the NHS. She was offered tablets with a pause for a "period" but I refused as I don't have periods! She he offered patches and I cited their issues with getting the dosage right and stuck by Oestrogel (which, incidentally, a medical friend also recommended). She did some looking up, and needed time to decide. So.....she is seeking an e-mail consultation (we are very remote so this happens a lot, apparently) from a Gynaecologist at the big hospital in the city.
She is going to phone me in a day or two when she gets a reply. Basically, she was happy to prescribe it, but unsure of it with Mireno etc.
Any more advice welcome in case she calls and wants tablets / patch. I really do feel the gel seems a good bet because of the control it gives you.
But, given that pinkfrocks (New Username pinkfrocksrocks) knows more than my GP, advice welcome!
And, to anyone else reading this, please be informed before seeing your GP. They don't seem to know very much about peri-menopause!