I thought I'd start this thread because I seem to reply to lots of posts saying the same thing.
I know that some women don't want HRT and that's a personal choice. On the other hand though it can be fantastic for women who are really suffering and who have tried everything else to no avail.
There is also a lot of mis-information about HRT based on the now-reviewed research done 10 years ago that showed certain risks and these have now been shown to be exaggerated.
HRT usually works really well for hot flushes, night sweats, dry vagina and bladder problems, low bone density, joint pain, memory, moods, and a whole load of other stuff.
There is now a lot of evidence that taken within 10 years of the menopause it reduces heart disease by 50% ( the biggest killer in the UK) and also reduces risk of colon cancer.
I'm not saying it's right for everyone but all I'd say is if you are suffering then make an effort to read all the research out there then make your choice. Websites like www.menopausematters.co.uk and the British Menopause Society have unbiased and expert content that's worth reading.