I'm 47 and grudgingly having to admit I may be peri-menopausal. My last few cycles have been 38, 21 and 17 days and are really heavy and painful. It's the 'rage' that is really getting me down. No hot flushes as yet. I have a 19 month old dd and I don't want her to look back on her childhood thinking Mummy was always grumpy and stressed out:( I visited Holland and Barrett yesterday for advice and was practically sold half of the shop! I bought some Agnus Castus and Starflower Oil for starters. Can anybody recommend anything else please that my help. I'd rather not go down the HRT route just yet. Thanks.