Vaping mums

[Mummy2threekids]

What to do when someone refuses my request for them to not vape in my home..?

I have a friend who repeatedly vapes in my home.. I’ve told her countless times there’s strictly no vaping in here but she still refuses to respect my request.. She does it on the sly, she hides her vape in her sleeve..

We haven’t known each other for long (app 1 year) so I don’t know how exactly to approach her.. I mean, I have asked her and stated to her the importance of not vaping in someone else’s home especially with kids and asthmatics.. But isn’t it just common sense..?

It honestly makes me sick..

I’ve stopped going to her home as she openly vapes the entire time I’m there even with our kids in the room..

I can’t exactly tell her what she can and can’t do in her home but I feel sorry for her child..

He has one of the worst coughs I’ve seen on a youngster and I believe it’s from her vaping with him in the home and in the car..

I no longer want to invite her over and wonder if I should let the friendship fade..? Or should I sit her down and lay out some boundaries..?

You make her leave.

If anyone got out a vape in my home they'd be given their marching orders. If they laughed and carried on they would like be led outside by their ear.

You’ve already given your boundary and she has walked all over it. Time for the friendship to end.

Goodbye.
She is not your friend!

Absoloutely ditch her, she doesn’t respect you

I vape and wouldn’t dream of doing it in anyone else’s home, it’s common decency. I’m also as respectful as I can be around others even outside and make sure I’m not near children or anyone as it’s my habit, not anyone else’s to be subjected to

Unfriend her OP. A strongly worded text to go with it, maybe it’ll be a wake up call to stop damaging her own child, never mind herself or others. Anyone who doesn’t have basic respect for you or your home is not worth spending time with.

How bloody disrespectful of her. FWIW I'm a smoker of real fags - we are a rare breed these days but I don't smoke in my own home - always go outside and would never ever smoke either a cigarette or vape inside someone's home- kick her out!

Same I'm an avid vaper and never do it in other peoples homes that's so bloody rude, TELL her to leave!

I just wouldn't invite her again.

That is really shitty behaviour and she has no respect for you, your home or your boundaries. There's no point really in a friendship like this.

Thanks everyone for your responses.. I had a chat with hubby and I think it’s best to say bye-bye to her.. My husband is a smoker and he has never smoked in our home..
I can’t handle being disrespected in my own home and I would never ever do this to her or anyone else for that matter..

I asked her 3 times in 1 visit to stop vaping inside and that we can easily sit out the front or back if she wants to vape but it’s like she has to have it every 5 minutes..!