I hadn't heard of Learning Curve so I'm largely replying to bump your post.
Are you doing this or similar? https://www.learningcurvegroup.co.uk/courses/level-3-access-to-higher-education-diploma-health-and-social-care/
should get 6 hours off the job training
What's the arrangement? That doesn't quite sound like an apprenticeship arrangement in terms of hours but is it contractual?
Depending on the arrangement, I think you need to be firmer about holding them to that if possible.
I'm working on the learning every spare minute I have. I cant get ahead with it.
Can't get ahead in what way? Are you getting stuck with content? Or just workload?
Do you need study skills support and can they provide that? Or recommend something?
My tutor has said there are consequences to not getting this work completed on time when I have asked for extra time
There are problems with extra time - if there is an overall deadline for final assessment or course completion then giving you extensions with earlier assessments just means you fall behind with the next lot and end up under even more pressure for the final assessment which usually has the most weighting. That doesn't really help you.
It may also have funding implications.
Sometimes you might need to agree that you just submit enough to pass or stay enrolled rather than trying to produce amazing work and falling further behind. That's a discussion for your next tutor about how to prioritise and move forward.
Just to add I have 7 children some are grown up but I still need to see and spend time with them I also have 6 grandchildren.
Of course, but if we're talking about a one year (?) commitment then it's about time management and accepting that you can't do everything you would have done in a normal year (including the same amount of free time) and also commit the hours this course needs.
What's your strategy at the moment? Eg do you have a study routine? It might help to have a "little and often" routine built into every day so it becomes a habit.
I also have depression and anxiety and I take medication for this
Does your current provider have mental health support services for its students? Eg guides and tips for studying with depression and anxiety? Are you getting bogged down because you're being a perfectionist or getting overwhelmed and procrastinating?