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Olindia · 20/04/2023 08:23

hello all, just looking for any advice or thoughts.
I am in my late 30s and have an ok job which is all I ever wanted to do ( and still enjoy it) but it is pretty dead end and there is no progression.
I had a baby (now 3) and realised that I wanted more prospects so I studied at our local-ish college and completed a foundation degree in health and social care (I got a distinction if it is relevant). I am now doing a top up in childhood studies.
My dilemma is that I live in a very remote rural location, the top up is online. My two nearest towns are 40 mins away which is probably where I’d be looking for work. I initially wanted to aim for social work (would obviously need to do a ma so more study) but I would quite like to work in a pastoral role in a school as well. I just feel like I’d quite like to be qualified as “something” my other interest is speech and language therapy but the nearest uni running the course is a 2 hour drive and it’s attending 2-3 days a week so I don’t feel it’s really doable?
I just wondered if anyone has done similar or does something that I haven’t thought of? I don’t really want to work with children in a nursery/ teaching day to day but would like to solve problems, i really enjoy working in a high pressure environment. My current role can be quiet or crazy and I really enjoy the crazy days with lots of emergencies. Thank you if you have got this far, I have tried to keep it short but if there’s anything else just ask :)

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mdh2020 · 20/04/2023 08:27

I’m not sure about the necessary qualifications but have you considered being an Educational Psychologist? As you need to study at home I suggest looking at what the OU has to offer.

MarciaSaysANumber · 20/04/2023 08:32

What is the actual benefit to you in living in a very remote rural location? If you achieve the qualifications you want - how are you going to work effectively? Quite honestly, with the rest of your life to prepare for, and one small child, I would be looking to move to somewhere that makes more sense.

(I once had an even longer commute to a place of study - it was awful, exhausting, stupid. I should have arranged something better.)

Olindia · 20/04/2023 08:48

Unfortunately moving isn’t an option unless I leave my OH (which is tempting sometimes 😂)
it is true though and my friends (although mostly from my current work so aren’t totally unbiased) ask what the point of it all is but I just feel like I can do more. The two towns that are 40 mins away are population circa. 50,000 and have a hospital and secondary schools which is what I was thinking of when I first started the foundation degree.
Yes thank you, I have been looking at the OU which do run a ma in social work but you need to be employed, I will look into what role etc as that is an option. I will also look at educational psychology as that sounds interesting. Thank you for your replies.

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MarciaSaysANumber · 20/04/2023 08:55

But what will be the use of an MA in Social Work if you’re nowhere near a central workplace?

I understand your ties to your partner - but are they completely happy to have you completely stuck in terms of career progression, doing a dead end job forever more?

Olindia · 20/04/2023 09:16

I could work as a social worker in my general area though, in one of the two towns. There are people doing the kind of careers that I am interested in but they have generally trained away and then either returned or moved to the area.
short answer, probably yes 🙈 he is very tied to his job and I moved to him originally. I wish I’d done something when I was younger but hindsight and all. I just went straight into doing what I do now (working with animals) and didn’t foresee that I’d want to do anything different. We do have a nice life but I just want to feel valued at work. I only really work because I want to and I want the money to live a better life but we could “manage” without.

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shivbo2014 · 24/04/2023 21:36

I'm currently doing a health and social care degree with the Ou. Afterwards, I am hoping to do the pgdip 'step up to social work' to become a children's social worker. It's a 14-month course where you work and study and qualify as a social worker. Perhaps you may be able to do that near you.

cheapskatemum · 24/04/2023 21:54

Do you have childcare for your 3 year old? I ask because you could work as a support worker in a residential children's home. It would be good experience if you then decided to qualify as a social worker too. The shifts tend to either start early (eg 7am) or finish late (eg 9.30pm) though, which is why I asked about childcare.

Olindia · 25/04/2023 08:14

Shivbo- thank you I have just looked into this and it definitely looks like an option, thank you. How are you finding your degree? I did look at that with the OU. I am enjoying my top-up which is distance learning but doing it through Teesside uni.
cheapskatemum- thank you that is something to consider.

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