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Mature study and retraining

Does anyone have a “proper” career after years of just jobs / no direction?

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LordSugarsFinger · 17/03/2022 08:01

I completely lost confidence at university and since have drifted and worked in meh jobs and suffered with depression. Now late 20s I feel like I want a career, or least something with progression and something to say “I do this” rather than just “I work”. I just worry it’s too late? Has anyone done this - it seems like people do the big career or well-paid job first then change path but not the other way round.

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CaptainMyCaptain · 17/03/2022 08:09

I dropped out after a term at teacher training college in the 70s and dud dead end jobs then went back to university in 1981 and did a teaching degree. It was easier then, though, because I got a full grant. Financing would be more difficult now.

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ThePlantsitter · 17/03/2022 08:12

In your late twenties this is perfectly possible, but you need to think about what you actually want to do. Then you can take the first step in doing it.

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Champagneforeveryone · 17/03/2022 08:12

You're only late twenties, I hate to break it to you but you've probably got coming up to another 40 years at work. I reckon that gives you ample time to change.

I started in my organisation around 4.5 years ago. I've moved up the ranks reasonably quickly, while still remaining in a role long enough to have a good grasp of it. There's masses of progression, sideways if you don't fancy upwards.

I'm at a stage now where I'm not certain I want the cut and thrust of going further up, but would certainly consider sideways. I don't see me ever leaving my organisation (for all its faults!) and I'm so glad I found it when I did, and while I had time to appreciate it Wink

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paranoidnamechanger · 17/03/2022 08:13

Definitely not too late! I'm a lot older - mid 40s - and had a similar path to you which I let go on for far too long. I'm now a counsellor, after training from 40. It's not great money in my current NHS role but with more experience I can apply for better paid jobs in the future. I also have the opportunity to do private practice as a sideline which I may do soon. It's hard work but rewarding and since qualifying my self-esteem has grown massively.

Good luck and if counselling is something you want to do PM me for more info.

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TottersBlankly · 17/03/2022 08:43

Lots of people! Look here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mature_students

This new Mature Study and Retraining board has been running for less than six months - and there are countless posters considering, embarking on, or navigating their way through, study or training - sometimes after a few years out, often after decades. GCSE retakes, access courses, OU, apprenticeships, degrees and postgrad degrees … Healthcare, computing, art, law, writing, train driving! You’re sure to find some experiences that resonate with you.

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TottersBlankly · 17/03/2022 08:50

(And, as if by magic …!)

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spacehardware · 17/03/2022 08:51

God yes, I had non grad level jobs until I drifted into a paralegal type role, eventually qualified as a solicitor at 31. I was noticeably 5 years or so older than other people at my level to start, but I pushed on and have now been promoted to same level as people my age who are 5 or more years senior in terms of PQE

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CourageCalls2Courage · 17/03/2022 08:52

I went to university (didn't do great) then I have kids relatively young in my early 20s. I have just got an amazing new job with training opportunities somewhere incredible in my late 30s.

You can change everything it's never too late but you have to have a goal and you have to be focused on it. Very few people fall into their dream job. Decided what you want and then plan the best way to get there.

I definitely made mistakes along the way but you can turn those into advantages with a little shift in focus

Good luck!!

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TheBitchOfTheVicar · 17/03/2022 09:10

I retrained aged 29 for a vocational career. I had a flat but no other responsibilities and absolutely no money saved or spare.

The only thing I had to be really careful with was finances, and it would he significantly harder now than then (15 years ago). I went back to university - if I was doing this now id probably look at something like accountancy, where you get paid as you train.

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shivbo2014 · 17/03/2022 11:50

Me! I worked In customer service after leaving school with just GCSEs. Then worked as a Housing Officer. I'm now 38 and currently at home with my youngest until he startes school next year. I didnt really want to go back to being a Housing Officer so Im studying a Health and Social Care degree with the Open University. I'm hoping to become a family support worker part time while studying but the end goal is to qualify as a social worker. It's definitely not too late, go for it!

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anewlife22 · 17/03/2022 14:21

Yes totally! Have had three interrelated phases of career to date and mid forties. Adhd meant like you I was a drifter. But now have combined phases 1 and 2 and thanks to pandemic back in a much more lucrative earning capacity. DO NOT write yourself off!

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LordSugarsFinger · 17/03/2022 19:40

Really interesting responses, thank you. And inspiring too.

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