Mature study and retraining
Does anyone have a “proper” career after years of just jobs / no direction?
LordSugarsFinger · 17/03/2022 08:01
I completely lost confidence at university and since have drifted and worked in meh jobs and suffered with depression. Now late 20s I feel like I want a career, or least something with progression and something to say “I do this” rather than just “I work”. I just worry it’s too late? Has anyone done this - it seems like people do the big career or well-paid job first then change path but not the other way round.
CaptainMyCaptain · 17/03/2022 08:09
I dropped out after a term at teacher training college in the 70s and dud dead end jobs then went back to university in 1981 and did a teaching degree. It was easier then, though, because I got a full grant. Financing would be more difficult now.
ThePlantsitter · 17/03/2022 08:12
In your late twenties this is perfectly possible, but you need to think about what you actually want to do. Then you can take the first step in doing it.
Champagneforeveryone · 17/03/2022 08:12
You're only late twenties, I hate to break it to you but you've probably got coming up to another 40 years at work. I reckon that gives you ample time to change.
I started in my organisation around 4.5 years ago. I've moved up the ranks reasonably quickly, while still remaining in a role long enough to have a good grasp of it. There's masses of progression, sideways if you don't fancy upwards.
I'm at a stage now where I'm not certain I want the cut and thrust of going further up, but would certainly consider sideways. I don't see me ever leaving my organisation (for all its faults!) and I'm so glad I found it when I did, and while I had time to appreciate it
paranoidnamechanger · 17/03/2022 08:13
Definitely not too late! I'm a lot older - mid 40s - and had a similar path to you which I let go on for far too long. I'm now a counsellor, after training from 40. It's not great money in my current NHS role but with more experience I can apply for better paid jobs in the future. I also have the opportunity to do private practice as a sideline which I may do soon. It's hard work but rewarding and since qualifying my self-esteem has grown massively.
Good luck and if counselling is something you want to do PM me for more info.
TottersBlankly · 17/03/2022 08:43
Lots of people! Look here:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mature_students
This new Mature Study and Retraining board has been running for less than six months - and there are countless posters considering, embarking on, or navigating their way through, study or training - sometimes after a few years out, often after decades. GCSE retakes, access courses, OU, apprenticeships, degrees and postgrad degrees … Healthcare, computing, art, law, writing, train driving! You’re sure to find some experiences that resonate with you.
spacehardware · 17/03/2022 08:51
God yes, I had non grad level jobs until I drifted into a paralegal type role, eventually qualified as a solicitor at 31. I was noticeably 5 years or so older than other people at my level to start, but I pushed on and have now been promoted to same level as people my age who are 5 or more years senior in terms of PQE
CourageCalls2Courage · 17/03/2022 08:52
I went to university (didn't do great) then I have kids relatively young in my early 20s. I have just got an amazing new job with training opportunities somewhere incredible in my late 30s.
You can change everything it's never too late but you have to have a goal and you have to be focused on it. Very few people fall into their dream job. Decided what you want and then plan the best way to get there.
I definitely made mistakes along the way but you can turn those into advantages with a little shift in focus
Good luck!!
TheBitchOfTheVicar · 17/03/2022 09:10
I retrained aged 29 for a vocational career. I had a flat but no other responsibilities and absolutely no money saved or spare.
The only thing I had to be really careful with was finances, and it would he significantly harder now than then (15 years ago). I went back to university - if I was doing this now id probably look at something like accountancy, where you get paid as you train.
shivbo2014 · 17/03/2022 11:50
Me! I worked In customer service after leaving school with just GCSEs. Then worked as a Housing Officer. I'm now 38 and currently at home with my youngest until he startes school next year. I didnt really want to go back to being a Housing Officer so Im studying a Health and Social Care degree with the Open University. I'm hoping to become a family support worker part time while studying but the end goal is to qualify as a social worker. It's definitely not too late, go for it!
anewlife22 · 17/03/2022 14:21
Yes totally! Have had three interrelated phases of career to date and mid forties. Adhd meant like you I was a drifter. But now have combined phases 1 and 2 and thanks to pandemic back in a much more lucrative earning capacity. DO NOT write yourself off!
LordSugarsFinger · 17/03/2022 19:40
Really interesting responses, thank you. And inspiring too.
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