I didn't realise flat white and cappuccinos were so bad :(
I kind of think that I"m mostly trying to reduce carbs a lot more than I normally do, but on the rare occasions I go out, that I could not worry so much for that meal.
But cappuccino or flat white are different - I drink one every day! I don't like filter coffee/espresso and have always just savoured that as my treat now that I'm not really having chocolate or biscuits or cakes. Tea just doesn't do it for me. I knew I shouldn't have hot chocolate. But cappuccino? :( Crumbs.
It's hard to find low-carb in any of that sort of shops, I know. Pret does a chicken and avocado salad that I think is OK. Some places do some little nut bags. For a treat, I like Pret dark chocolate and sea salt bar, as I can even eat just half of it sometimes. I know it's still not really low-carb, but compared to what I used to eat, it is!
Starbucks has two new treats, an apple bar and a dark chocolate hazelnut bar, which are about the lowest carbs of all the bakery goodies. Not low carb by any means, but better than most of the rest, so if you're going to have a bakery thing, might be worth a try.
I find it frustrating that I can't ever have the nice stuff that I like, feels like having even one meal now and then is going to sabotage the whole effort. So I find myself cutting out going to that kind of shop, coffee shop ,lunch place etc, which is bad socially. And mentally! Wish there were more options. Or that a 'bad day' wasn't so bad on this kind of diet. At least on WW or that sort of low-calorie diet, a meal off didn't just ruin all your good work!