I need someone to chat too, fed up, still living in family home with ex coming home at weekends.

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Hi.

Well I will try and cut a long story short. I split with ex in feb. He works away all week so now come back every other weekend to see the kids and stays in the house in the spare room. I try and go out as much as I can when he is here.

We have a joint mortgage and we are trying to come to some kind agreement over money etc. I have been to see a solicitor and he has suggested what to do. Ex pays me off with £10,000 to start and gets my name off mortgage ad then we have a written agreement that he pays me half equity of house when he sells it. Or he has to give me half the equity straight away.

Ex is taking his time and seems to be stalling fillinbg in the paper work etc and im very tempted to go back to the solicitor.

To top it off we live next door to his parents and he keeps trying it on with me, came into my room yesterday while I was naked and wouldnt leave.

I so want to get out and move on but I just dont know how im going to be able to.

Does anyone have any advice that would help me please?

Firstly, what an awful situation you are in. Must be extremly frustrating and upsetting for you.
Do you mean his Dad keeps trying it on with you?Or ex does?either way I think you should atleast log a report with police/solicitor to protect yourself as it sounds awful.
If I were you I would go back to the Solicitor as he is just trying to drag his heels and make things difficult. Do not get pished into anything just to get it sorted quicker.
And just keep thinking that soon it will all be over and that you can move on to the next part of your life.

Thanks for your message.

No I meant ex keeps trying it on with me and I know I have definately moved on and will not get bacl together with him. I just feel like im in such an awkward situation and I do believe he is dragging his heels as he keeps telling me how busy he is and how he doesnt have time to sort out the money situation.

I have just had enough really and cant stand the weekends when I come home from being out and he is here and the house is trashed etc etc.

I would log it with your solicitor as thats intimidation.
Go and see her about the money and sorting everything as he is doing that to try and get you to give up IMHO.
I really do feel sorry for you as you are in limbo (and a shitty limbo at that)