revenge ideas needed!!

[martine2]

can you help with this one? my best friend has just been stood up for the second time by a complete tosser. He's not even an oil painting but only after one thing. My friend is gutted not only with him but also herself for giving him a second chance and spending the night with him. Its time for revenge!!

ERm, how about being adult about it and just not contacting him again?

This man is internet dating and looking for sex dont we owe it to his other potential prey (other single mums) to send him a message that he cant treat people like this? i appreciate your response but i think he has gone out of his way to win over the affections again of my friend and again really violated her. She is really hurt.

www.liarscheatsandbastards.com - stick him on there!

Tell your friend to be a a bit more fussy on who she spends the night with next time, he's obviously got what he wanted and now he's moved on to his next victim.

My sister once found out that an ex was cheating on her, she covered his house and car in horse manure ... very childish but hell it made her feel good!

Might be nice to stand him up. Devise some event that he couldn't resist and then... well the rest is up to you, but put as much imagination into the humiliation as you do into the honey trap.

FGS, don't put him on a website or your friend will find herself up a certain creek without a paddle...and a libel suit.

Ignore and move on. He doesn't owe her anything and she shouldn't waste one more joule of energy on the twat.

oh I know it's ever so childish but revenge is sweet! I dunno what you are gonna come up with but I hope you have fun!

And why the hell should these guys get away scot free time and time again? Cheaters, male and female, deserve all they get in my opinion!

Good luck!

LJ, so when are you going to get the scarlet paint out?? It's not up to each individual to exact revenge. He's a twat she says so I'm sure the karma bus will come rolling soon enough. Why waste your time on someone who treated you so badly?

Living happily is the best revenge.

Put it in perspective, the guy only stood her up, it's not like they were 10 years married with kids. Puhleaze...

um, get a life? Not everyone needs you like you, you know. Maybe he thought she was boring or annoying and couldn't be arsed seeing her again. It's not a crime

needs to like you

Maybe you could run and tell the teacher on him

oh deffo lead him on then stand him up, it's only fair.

some men deserve it.

I agree with Kitty .. the Karma bus will be coming around this guy's corner sooner or later. I went out with a tw*t who messed up my life bigtime and I finally gave him the heave-ho six years ago.

As I worked with him in his business - my income, everything went overnight, and I also lost contact with a lot of our mutual friends and business contacts and was left with a lot of debt. Financially it was hell on earth, and it's taken me a long time to get out of it. I was in a position to do him some damage (long story) and I was very tempted ... but decided if I did I would just be as big a lowlife as he was, tempting as it was, I didn't do anything and just walked away.

He sailed on as if nothing had happened, flash git - got himself a new woman in a matter of weeks and it was business as usual. Just found out that he's been done for selling fraudulent goods - managed to avoid prison (unfortunately) but had to be tagged and put on curfew (how it makes me smile to think of that) and is going to have all his assets stripped from him by the courts.

It took six years but the Karma bus eventually arrived.