and so it begins

[rhksmum]

who the hell do you think you are, 4 phonecalls this morning to the house in the space of 20 mins, then 3 to my mobile, then tonight 6 calls to the house 1 after the other,
I have caller ID so I know its you
I'm not answering the house phone because I know I'm gonna get a whole load of abuse off you
you know your daughter is not here so why phone, its not like your interested in your son and because I don't answer the phone you phone my other sons phone demanding to know where I am
I dont want to speak to you, you have the lawyers letter so deal with it
I'm doing what's right for the kids, unlike you

so why dont you f*ck off back to cloud cuckoo land where you live and leave me alone

Change your number?

Turn your phone off.

Keep a record of what he's doing (make a spreadsheet and just type it up as it goes along). If it carries on tell the police and they may well have a word with him / caution him / charge him with harrassment.

My XP was cautioned + fined for harrassment and it did stop most of it.

My mobile is switched off now, but I need to keep the house phone on as my daughter is staying at her friends and thats the ony number they have.

I'm hoping that all the phonecalls are just a knee jerk reaction on his part, but I'm not too sureHe's used to being the one in control, the one that you dont say no to. I know I will have to speak to him eventually but right now I can't deal with him.