I really need a shag!

[poshsinglemum]

DD is 15 months so I can't get out much plus have no money to socialise.
I havn't had sex for two years and I'm starting to get desperate for sex. I am getting down about it. Even if I do meet a nice man or just a man with a pulse how do we have spontaneous dirty sex with a one year old around? I'm mourning my freedomn again.
I do have a rampant rabbit and it's good but nothing beats a real man you know?
How do you lot cope with sexual frustration. I don't understand how I will ever have a sex life again.

There are benefits to 1 year olds - they stay in their cots!
Do you want a new relationship, or do you just want no strings sex? Can you handle emotionless sex? - not everyone can. Does your dd ever see her father or stay with her GPs?
I had a couple of brief flings when I was newly single. Now I am a bit less bothered about the sex but more interested in finding someone nice to spend time with... if you have no help at all then can you find a babysitter and then find whatever are appropriate dates/nights out for you?

I can understand, I am in a similar position, just on the other side of the fence, it would be nice to have some affection from a lady

try shag hunt

I joined shaghunt but it's frustrating because if they are real I get plenty of messages but to reply you need to join and minimum is one month at around £39.99 which I think is pretty steep but what do I know

First time i joined shaghunt on it was on a a Sunday morning, i got picked up the same afternoon for a steamy session with a woman a couple of miles away, afterwards she made me a chicken sandwich while i waited for a taxi home. If you have something about you, and i mean facially and personality wise and you play the numbers you will have fun. I dip in and use it on and off, have done for years

I met my ex on a free dating app called baddoo, it shows you people nearby who have signed up, and it’s free.

Maybe get a baby sitter one night?

Lol, that went creepy real quick

There's three ways to deal with it

1. Wait and date properly
2. Stick to the rabbit
3. Get out and have some no strings sex

They're really your only options but all have their upsides and downsides.

There is a holy grail of the perfect sex buddy, but I think they may be more urban myth than reality.

Still looking for a shag?

Just do tinder! 90% of guys on there only want a shag and you can narrow down by nearby. 1yo makes it easier than an older child! I did 3.5 years without a shag but it was EPIC!

If u need some loving please feel free message me xx

When you're ready sweetheart. But if i'm being honest I would prefer if there was a chance it would lead somewhere...

I totally get it. I was like this after I split from my ex. I got myself onto tinder and did some serious swiping.
Careful though. I specified "nothing serious" and a year later I'm still dating someone I clicked with.
Babysitters and OLD.

I just re-read your post and see that ££ is an issue. So a babysitter might be tricky. Can you do babysitting swaps with a friend, maybe?
Or better yet, any FWB prospects?

Are you still looking to have some naughty fun

I’m here for you whenever you need me.

Is this a legit website

Wait until marriage, have u tried kissing though? I find it more enjoyable