I got a visit from a Compliance Officer. We are just friends but we live together, I just moved in a couple of months ago because I could not get on housing. I wasnt getting enough money to get by every two weeks to be on my own.
They asked all sorts of questions like, who does the cooking? Who pays the rent? Do other people view you as a couple? Do you know anyone who thinks that you are a couple? Where do you keep your food, in separate places or together? Who does the housework?
It was pretty ridiculous, really. Then they tried to convince us that we should claim as a couple. So I am supposed to claim that I am part of a couple when all we are is friends?
I am in the middle of getting a divorce right now, and I talked to my Solicitor today about it, and just told her a little about this. She seemed in disbelief about it, sort of surprised. Then she said, "They are actually asking you to LIE, to claim you are a couple, when it isnt true".
Now is that true, or what? Yes it is! The Government is actually asking us to do what they consider as would be illegal if we ourselves did it, which is LIE. The only difference, is THEY are asking us to lie, so that they can claim OUR benefits, and keep us, the rightful owners of the benefits, from getting what is ours. I thought its US (the people who are on benefits) who are always accused of trying to defraud the Government and not the other way around?
I am just afraid of going out on my own, as I have never lived on my own before and am only getting £124 every 2 weeks. I dont think that I will be able to afford it, and if they decide to pull my money from me, I have a disability, and cannot work even though they claim I can. Its just a total nightmare!
So now they are trying to force me to become dependent upon some guy that I really barely even know, but had to go and live with because of what the Government did to me. Its horrible. This is jujst a way for the Government to be able to rob people of what is rightfully theirs. As soon as I got here, my friend and I applied for a two bedroom place. Good grief, I have been sleeping on the couch all this time for 2 months now. We are in NO WAY a "couple" but the Government just wants not to have to give us as much money, and that is all there is to it. Oh if you just knew the entire story, it would make you sick, honestly. I was in an abusive marriage and it was social services who forced me to be removed from my home. And I have a disability and am just basically left homeless, for all intents and purposes. Its just wicked.