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Xp's mother has returned all photos of my kids as 'they don't exist' - she is just evil.

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NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 17:22

She is truely a evil, mean woman.

Xp always had a rough relationship with her as did his brother. She basically thought that everyone had to do and think exactly as she did and if you objected then there was hell to pay.

I was with xp for 10 years and she hated me on sight. I made the mistake (in her eyes) of not keeping my mouth shut when she was slagging me off to xp whilst I was stood in the same room. I answered back, and so she attempted to punch me in the stomnach. I was 9 weeks pregnant with her grandchild at the time, and had just miscarried a twin.

Over the years she caused untold trouble between me and xp and all of his siblings. We didn't see her or his dad on and off for years. My kids barely knew them and most times she denied their existence anyway.

Since I split with xp, his parents have been banned from any contact at all with my children. Xp's brother also banned them from contact with his children for more or less the same reasons.

In Oct xp's Dd had a baby boy. I found out yesterday that his mum got his neice to write 'congratulations XXXX, another bastard in the family' on her wall.

Xp's grandad is still alive and living in a home. Xp and his brother have been banned from visiting him, and all pics of my children, xp's 2 children and his brothers 3 children have all been removed from his grandads room and if he asks about any of them xp's mum tells him he is confused and there never was anyone of that name.

Xp has just handed me an envelope of photos of my kids that we had given them over the years. Xp also had all the pics of his elder 2 children returned. His brother recieved the same, only theirs had his wife cut out of every single one. His mum didn't like her either.

Never in my life have a I known such an evil, bitter and twisted person.

I am not religious, but thank god that she is no longer part of mine or my dc's lives.

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TotalChaos · 08/05/2009 17:24

farking hell evil is no exaggeration on this one. did she have an awful childhood or something?

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 17:27

Not as far as I know no. She was spoilt as a child though I think.

She now only speaks to her 2 daughters, and their children, and has stated that no one else ie xp and his brother exist.

It has taken xp and his brother a long time to realise how awful she is, but it looks they finally have, as neither want anything to do with her now.

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pipsqueak · 08/05/2009 17:28

my word - thank goodness you and dc are out of that ..

PacificDogwood · 08/05/2009 17:30

My god, pip, how awful!! Good riddance from what I can gather.
Makes me feel a bit sorry for your exP's childhood though -

Janos · 08/05/2009 17:31

What a vile woman Nutty. It defies belief that anyone could behave like that. Poor you having to put up with it all for so long.

You know what - karma always gets people like that. She'll get hers!

brimfull · 08/05/2009 17:31

bloody hell she is sick!

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 17:34

I think xp's childhood was ok tbh. I think it was when they all grew up and got minds of their own that the problems started.

His mother thought she could still control them.

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NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 17:35

I am just glad that my dc have my mum and dad around, so they know what grandparents are supposed to be like.

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stardust86 · 08/05/2009 17:48

How bitter and twisted ! Someone like this is a very sad individual and I'd hate to know what goes on in their heads, they're likely to be very unhappy people. I suppose people so warped like this should be pitied, I couldn't bring myself to do that (I suspect you won't be able to!) so just thank your lucky stars she is no longer in your life, and has no influence whatsoever on the children. Would you really want this witch to see your darling kids?

good riddance to bad rubbish I say.

SoupDragon · 08/05/2009 17:49

It sounds like you should celebrate!

nickschick · 08/05/2009 17:50

I think you are well rid tbh.....

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 17:59

Oh god no, I am definatly glad. She had been banned from seeing my dc for a while anyway.

I will definatly be having a glass of wine to celebrate.

My dc know that she has sent their pics back, but they don't seem bothered because they didn't like her anyway.

One of the pics is of Ds as a baby laughing his head off and my copy of it was ruined so I am really pleased to have that back.

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LastOrders · 08/05/2009 18:08

What a total misfit freak.

MIL from hell to beat them all I'd say.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 08/05/2009 19:05

jesus am lost for words

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 19:19

I am not surprised tbh, she is one very unhinged woman.

I do worry though that she will do something stupid like make false allegations to SS or something stupid like that. It is exactly the type of thing she would do.

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ilovesprouts · 08/05/2009 19:24

what a truely evil woman your better off whith out her

Jux · 08/05/2009 19:33

I feel sorry for your xp's great grandad(?). How awful to be stuck in a home and half your family removed in one fell swoop when you are completely helpless. Can you visit him and give him some photos?

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 19:36

Well xp is still planning to try and visit as is his brother, but unfortunatly he is very confused and so if they give him any more photos he is likely to show them to xp's mum and she will just remove them again.

Xp's brother has told the staff at the home what his mother is doing, but they don't seem too bothered and can't get invloved really I suppose.

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tiredemma · 08/05/2009 19:38

She sounds a bit mad.

NervousNutty · 08/05/2009 19:48

Only a bit emma

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 08/05/2009 20:06

i have to say this is one of the most horrible threads that i have ever read
and god only knows how you hold it together nutty
i'm still struggling here tbh

MrsMcCluskey · 08/05/2009 20:29

She will surely end up a very lonley old laddy one day. Good enough for her!

Jux · 08/05/2009 21:00

I sincerely hope her daughters pluck up the courage to get away from her too. Perhaps you could give them each that book 'Toxic Parents' for Xmas

Kimi · 08/05/2009 21:13

What an evil sick woman, at least the family know she is a mad twisted bitch.

You and your whole family are so much better off without any contact from her.

OrmIrian · 08/05/2009 21:15

You are all well rid!

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