I've been single for 4 mths now and had 2 x £10 off my exH for our son, but he kept pleading poverty.
I told him to keep the money and use it instead to buy dvds, toys or clothes for our son, or use it to take him out when he has him at the weekends.
He doesn't take him anywhere, and has bought him nothing. He does however pay £10 a month into his child trust fund.
A few people have suggested i get CSA involved, but others have told me i could end up worse off financially because i receive housing and council tax benefits.
I don't really need the money and i don't want to be petty, part of me thinks i should just take the high road and let it go.
I'm interested to hear of other peoples experiences with the CSA and also whether they think im doing the right thing?