DD (2.9) has been seeing her dad unsupervised for about a year now, alternating between his mum (with whom she has always had a good relationship with) bringing him to mine to pick her up, and me dropping DD off at his. Several months ago, I took her to his as usual and he wasn't there, and DD cried, wanting to see him. He phoned me soon after to explain there'd been a mix-up and he managed to see her later that day. This weekend, as is becoming increasingly common on these trips, she cried on the way (she's ok when granma picks her up) and when we got to his front door, she clung to me and said 'no mum, want back in car'. We were both so relieved when no-one answered!! However I did feel sad when there was not even a phone call from him after asking to see her. But I do hope this keeps up! I have tried asking her why she doesn't want to see daddy, but her vocab and attention span is still very limited so am still in the dark. It is worrying, but there's little point in trying to discuss it directly with him because he is just plain unreasonable and a compulsive liar. I wish I could be a fly on the wall when she is at his, so I can see what is going wrong.