Quick question
Ex is being a pain. he had agreed a figure for maintance but now is going back on it as he says he is paying for a joint debt ( true) I said that that is nothing to do with child maintence, and will be sorted in the divorce settlement, maybe he pays it and i dont take his pension?? Anyway, he said it is taken into account.
Also, exacally how much should he give me per month?? He earns about £30k.
thansk