I am 6 months and when first found out exp was a total shit...I posted on here and everyone was so helpful...so sorry guys but nobody else I can be so honest with...
My exp was very much 'I'm too busy and I can't cope' amongst other mean behaviour so I blocked his number from my phone and set my mind to going it alone.
Suddenly he realised I was doing this and decided to get in touch with promises of 'I will do what I can please let me be involved'
I am so vulnerable right now so I said I would meet him on sunday. I called him last night to to arrange and he was busy so 'would call ne back' he didn't (no surprse there) so I texted 'thanks for the callback. I have just realised I am busy on sunday so cannot meet' he texted straight back 'you call me?' I sent 'Its late I am going to bed' and that was that.
I am now in tears and back to square one. He thinks he can do what he likes and pick us up when it suits him and I want better for me and my baby.
I feel strongly that she deserves a consistent role model and to know she is totally loved - not when it suits. He thinks I am stupid on the consistancy thing but he has two kids that live with him (he wanted those as he told me referring to my baby) and I don't want her to grow up feeling third best and constantly not knowing when she would see him again.
Help me please I know I am angry and upset but I just don't know what to do.