NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS..........

[MeNmyGirl]

What are yours? I am determind to lose weight, eat healthly and go to the gym more :D

To lose my last stone to get to my target weight I have lost 4.3 stone up to now. Also to stop being such a shouty mum and partner.

Lose weight
Eat healthly
Do more exercise
Pass driving test
Stop being so negative
Not use internet dating sites
Be nicer to myself

....I too need to go to the gym, as a visit is now due.

My last visit was in 1989, so I feel bi-decadely (neologism there folks) is reasonable...

Lose weight
Keep up with my college work
Try not to shout so much/lose my temper with my dts
Make time for me/try to get out more/meet someone (but not online!!)
Join a tennis club

Lose reaminder of baby weight (ds2 is nearly 3!)
Eat healthily
Do sit-ups
Do not let ex treat me/dc's badly
Allow myself to relax and be happy
Start dating - for fun only
To hold me head high and not be embarressed by being separated from dc's dad.

Make the break and leave DP.
Build a new life for myself, new friends, a night or two out.
Focus on my adorable DS more.

Be stronger with my family
Try to be a better mum & not shout so much
Drink less
Try to keep my house tidier & be more organised
Do what is best for me, my boys & DP, and not constantly try to please others

Get the job that I am on a second interview for next week.
Not be to soft and stand up for myself more at home
Smile at someone at least once a day
Meet someone nice and kind
Go out more with friends

To think positive

To buy myself stuff

To take my library books back on time

To make some new friends .

To BF my new baby .

To stop viewing vino like its part of my 5 a day.
To try harder to be more patient with my dcs.
To stop making certain people make me feel down.
A new job.
Finally sell my house.
To continue to enjoy my new life.
Spend more time with my man

oh and hehe!! love all those lines about not using internet dating sites lol!!

To keep going with my weight loss and maintain it this time.

To train up and get my nvq-hopefully leading on to a job again.

To spend more one-to-one time with my dd while ds is at school and help her gain more confidence.

To organise myself more.

Be more positive and less sensitive.

But most of all:
To get strict with my exh and stop him visiting the dcs at my home-this is the tricky one as I want to keep things civil for the dcs,but I know he can be a wanker if he doesn't get his way.

pass driving test
get a 1st in my degree
get onto PGCE course for september
be more organised ( mainly relating to housework!)
Get fat ass back to the gym!

as long as i stick to the first 4 i wont be too worried! lol!

wooga will add your last one to my list as well.

asbm-not just me with that problem then,it's a real nuisance,and I'm cross at myself for letting it happen.

It was really good to have an exh free zone when I moved here and for quite a while it stayed that way,but then he started popping in to see the dcs and it's been getting more and more.

Now I've got to set boundaries again without him getting the hump and getting arsey.

He lives back with his mum now(cheap hotel where he's mummy's boy again!)and although he doesn't have the room there for the dcs-except for their sunday visit-he has no intention of moving out.

I need to toughen up-add that to my resolutions!

time to get tough I'd say.
And another mummy's boy too.
I still live in the family home(thou desp to sell)and he rents a house,but I hate it so much when he comes round here.
Even worse is when I try to be pleasant for dcs sake and I know it will all be thrown in my face and he'll start being an abusive arse again