The story is that xp is a knob.
We spilt up 1.5 years ago, he has never made any effort to pretend he wasnt a knob, and last year I let him stay Xmas Eve for the kids and the first words out of his mouth to me Xmas Morning were something like Not Happy Xmas or something daft like that anyway and I just thought FFS and spent the rest of the day tolerating him while he sat on the sofa.
SO of course, this year, Im thinking well I dont want a repeat of that, and now we are further down the line XP cant keep his rotten mouth shut, in front of the kids, saying things such as bla bla, "Mummy wont want you around because she will be going to the pub with her man friends"(Fucking Pathetic) so WHY oh WHY am I feeling incredibly sad, and guilty about texting him days ago to say I didnt think we could spend the day together harmonously, so I think we shouldnt spend Xmas Day together?
Its really making me feel quite ill actually I KNOW its for the best, and I know he would drive me up the wall, and I know it would be a day of insults for me, but its making me cry.
I didn't want this for my kids. God. Feel free to ignore. Just needed to offload that.
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Stupidly getting upset about Xmas
UnfortunatelyMe · 02/12/2008 23:07
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