Would this drive you mad?

[Dannymum]

Hi i have been reading the lone parent threads for quite a while now but never posted. I hope you dont mind me jumping in with a problem.

I have realised me and my boyfriend have got stuck in a routine that i dont like. We both have a few days off a week, when children are at school and we are not working. We have ended up using this time to have sex. But lately i feel that we have sex, i pull my pants up, he drops me at home, he has freedom, and i carry on with hard work.
It seems it is a really good situation for him but i feel used.
I don't know how to change the pattern though.

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I cant get a babysitter for evenings, he knows this and uses time to have freedom. In the days he will see me, but he dissapears when the kids are home. I let this happen as it is early days and i dont want to push them on him. But i feel pulled in all sorts of directions. As if everyone wants a bit of me. A lot of it is my problem as they our my kids, i think i'm jeailous him not having any, or even him not being the father!

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I have just rang him and asked if he will come to talk proper tomorrow. He was worried he had done something, i hope i dont scare him away.

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Thankyou giraffeski for your help and time, you are right, i will ask if he wants to do something with us all and make sure i dont sleep with him tomorrow.

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