Had a call Fri night ex in mock tears-his father ill (AGAIN)so he wanted to swop contact from Sat to Sun. I agreed. And guess what? He didn't turn up-no phone call no message.
Before you all think I am a callous B**ch cos something has probably happened to his dad which made him unable to come/contact us can I just add that in the last 9 months his mum has fallen off the stair lift and been ambulanced to hospital (didn't happen), sister has had a fit due to drugs (don't know about that one...) dad also collapsed and was taken to hospital(didn't happen)all requiring him to rush off to see them and not see DD. May I just also add that this is the man who left our family holiday in Spain cos dad had had a stroke-again untrue!
I knew when he rang Fri that this would happen and just wanted to say "OK so in other words you have had a better offer and will not be seeing Dd this weekend) but didn't. He even had the nerve to say i didn't sound like I cared! I don't. We have been divorced for 3 years, separated for 2 before that and his parents have never contacted me once ever so why should I?
Would you say anything? Would so like to let him know I know it is a pile of crap but don't know if it is worth it?