He is a fuckwit, a complete and utter fuckwit.
He lives with his mother and see ds one night every weekend, every week i say to him, ring me at the begining of the week(mon, tues) to let me know which night you want ds so i can plan my weekend (he dj's, so sometimes works friday nights) and everyweek he rings me on fecking Friday!
His mother does most of the parenting for ds when he is there(which doesnt bother me, in fact i prefer it as i know ds is well looked after) xp just sits in his room on the computer all day.
This weekend his mother was away for the weekend, so he rings me friday to tell me he cant have ds as there is not heating, boiler is broke, but wants to take him out on Sunday, i say fine, let me know what time your picking him up, so he sayd ok, will ring to confirm.
He rings on sat to say his dad will be picking ds up as he has no tax on his car (his dad picks him up every week as he always has some excuse not to, which suits me, as dont want to have to look see the tosser in person) then he speaks to ds on phone and tells him 'Grandpa is picking you up tomorrow to go and see some fireworks with Daddy' ds is all excited. Xp says will ring you Sun morning to say what time, it will probably be early.
Sunday - ds is excited, keeps asking when grandpa is coming, come lunch time xp still hasnt rang, so i ring him, he says oh i was jsut going to call you grandpa will be there to get him at 2pm. I say ok but ds has been waiting all morning and is very excited, so xp says, oh, i will ring my dad now and see if he will pick him up early then, if i dont ring you back it will be 2pm.
2.30pm poor ds still waiting to be picked up. I text Grandpa, he rings straight back and says xp told him 3pm, wtf?
He also said xp never rang to ask him to pick up ds early then he says, he offered to come and get ds at 11am, but xp told him i was busy, and he couldnt get him till 3pm he also said he brought 4 extra heaters to the house so ds could stay at the weekend, but xp told me house was too cold for ds to stay.
i made plans for 2pm, so my day was ruined, ds waited all day and was grumpy and whiney, so i rang xp and told him what a fuckwit he is and he couldnt organise a pissup in a brewery without his mum being around!
He does stuff like this every week, i am sick of biting my tongue for the sake of ds