that my ex is a total and utter cunt. There are plenty of plausible excuses for his behaviour but even if you try to be as liberal and understanding as conceivably possible he still takes the piss in a most phenomenal fashion. He is a pathetic, selfish, narcissistic, abusive waste of matter.
So, because I don't say it to him, and won't ever say it to DD and am not allowed to go into any details I just need to say here HE IS A BASTARD.
There. Feeling much better now.